The following blog was written by Beth Melillo including parts of an interview with her father, OPA member John Louis Melillo.
Disabled Vietnam Veteran/Contemporary Realistic Oil Painter, John Melillo teaches other Veteran’s to paint inside the Beyond Van Gogh Immersive Experience.
Strength, Honor, Hope, and Courage is an oil painting from my father’s “Life Goes On Part 2” series from this past Veteran’s Day Solo exhibition that describes his story best! I’m honored each day by his strength and endurance as he strives by using art to continue to heal from PTSD. Together we have created an art journey of oil paintings plus video content (I’m a tv producer) that we have shared with the world to build awareness on the healing power of art!
We wanted to share with you my father’s art story. This inspiring event was held literally inside the Van Gogh Immersive Experience Long Island where he taught 10 veterans to paint and explore the power of art! I took photos and produced a video we will share with you to feel as if you were there.
JOHN: “After retiring from a 45 year NYC business pace about 7 years ago, I didn’t realize that this was masking some of the things I had experienced in Vietnam. Now I was having not only nightmares but daymares (flashbacks). I went to the VA for help. Besides all the counseling programs I participated in, they gave me a Vocational Aptitude Test. I scored in the top 1% on creative arts, though I never did anything artistic before. With their help, I enrolled in oil painting art courses at the School of Visual Arts in NYC, NY Academy of Arts, The Met, and The Art League of NY. I also received Business Certificates from Sotheby’s and Christies. In learning to create through art, this gift from God became a “3rd Act in My Life” – a Rebirth. I found a solace and source of healing to deal with my PTSD infirmity.”
My father and I were so excited when the “Beyond Van Gogh: Immersive Experience” was coming to Long Island so that he could experience it. We had the great opportunity to attend the press pre-opening and my father had the distinguished honor to do a personal walk through with Fanny Curtat, Art History Consultant of “Beyond Van Gogh: The Immersive Experience”.
JOHN: “I am a huge Van Gogh fan. You know when you hear the word Impressionist you think of Renoir, Manet, Monet, Seurat, etc. Cubism brings Picasso and Dali to mind. However, there is only ONE style of painting when you see it, you say ‘That’s a Van Gogh’. Fanny Curtat, who curated the Immersive Event, provided a great deal of knowledge and history about him. As we walked through the exhibit, her behind the scenes insights in creating it, brought me closer to this Master. It helped me appreciate Van Gogh, the man, as well as his 300 pieces of art on display.”
Following this incredibly inspiring preview on the day before opening to the public, the ”Beyond Van Gogh: Immersive Experience” team embraced my father as a Vietnam veteran surviving PTSD through art. We came up with an art workshop idea to have my father teach other Veterans to paint literally inside the “Beyond Van Gogh Immersive Experience” room where Van Gogh’s experience was inspiring all around them. We reached out to 10 Veterans from my father’s network who all had inspiring initiatives to come paint and enjoy the experience.
JOHN: “Working with other disabled veterans in this atmosphere really gave me a true sense of worth. Helping other veterans dealing with their efforts to create was a great inspiration for me as well as additional healing for all of us.
I felt Van Gogh was dealing with dark issues (not unlike PTSD) in his life trying to head Towards the Light with his unique style, brush strokes, and complementary colors. Working with veterans in the actual Immersive Event added inspiration for all of us. In our class we started with a black canvas and built a bright forest. I showed my class how we could go in additional positive directions from there. The response was overwhelming for all of us, I felt.”
The experience my father and I shared with other Veterans that day under the home of the “Beyond Van Gogh Immersive Experience Long Island” was a unique healing opportunity.
JOHN: “My message and take away is GLOBAL. Everyone has their Vietnams, be it a death in the family, a bad relationship, an illness, an accident, etc. How we deal with it tends to define us.
PTSD is not something that heals. It is something you learn to live and survive with. I suggest you do something GOOD for yourself. Find something that gives you pleasure. If you like to sing, join a choir: read, join a book club: dance, take lessons, and so on. Immerse yourself in something that gives you a sense of accomplishment and you’ll find a path to solace. My (AH HA) moment was learning how to oil paint. Thank you, Lord.”
I’m thankful to share this experience with my father as art continues to heal him in so many creative ways!
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Michael Jenis says
The story gets more beautiful each time I read more…..
Beth says
Thank you Michael for all your support you provide my father and I!
Linda Massey says
BEAUTIFUL! I have tears in my eyes thinking of how fortunate John is to have found his gift and is sharing it with others.
How inspiring!
John & Beth says
Linda – your kind words make the experience even more amazing! Thank you!
Matt Hindra says
Great article about John. I’ve had the privilege of interviewing him and if you are interested in hearing more of John’s story visit https://usawarriorstories.org/watch/john-melillo
Beth says
Matt- you have been a True hero to my father and I. We value all your support and talent in sharing his triumphant story! We look forward to continue to share his Art journey with you!
YES, please check out the ABOVE link to USA Warrior Stories to see the great shows Matt has done on my Dad~!
Franklin Mendez says
I’m doing the same thing in Austin Texas. In 2020 I painted 20 portraits of my Vietnam Veteran Coffee group, to help them heal as an appreciation for their service. I painted them for free. I kept the originals, but they had an opportunity to purchase Giclee´s. I have hosted 3 Art shows with these Portraits, and in each show the Veterans are present to talk to the visitors. Each Veteran wears a number to correspond to his portrait. The joy of seeing them interact with the attendees is priceless. They feel a sense of worth and it goes a long way to help them heal with their invisible wounds(PTS).
Our last show in 2022 was the Tom Lea Combat Warrior Art. The Old Emporium Bakery and Gallery show cased the Austin Veterans Art Festival. the show ran from Sept-October. This year I will be featured in a retrospective of my art work. I have also participated in 5 “National Veterans Creative Arts Competitions” where I have won 6 Blue ribbons(2 in one year 2 different categories) for my work. I have donated all my Vietnam Art to the National Vietnam War Museum, in Mineral Wells, Tx.. So that others may find healing with my work. To date they own a total of 6 canvases of my work. Most are 24″x36″ in size.
I am also scheduled to do a Portrait Painting Demo at the Help Heal A Veteran House in Temple, Tx. It was scheduled for May 3, 2023. But due to my accident, we have rescheduled it for later this summer.
For me the process of painting has been my corner stone to deal with my own issues. I suffered the identical crash after retiring as an Art Director after 35 years. I found art to be my life savor.
I paint every morning for 5:00AM until 7:30AM. I find the silence a satisfying time to immerse myself in my work. By focusing on the complexities of color and composition, my mind has no space left for intrusions of the memories from Vietnam. Art heals, and I am dedicated to continue to pass that on to my veteran brotherhood.
John Melillo says
Frank
Looks like we’re on similar paths. I have 3 events coming in high end Art Schools and Museums.
By the way, I went to Flight school in Mineral Wells.
Maybe we can collaborate on something in the future.
One interesting note which I’m sure you’ve seen. I get Vets in who haven’t ever dealt with the VA because of bad experiences they had when they got out. I tell them the VA is very receptive today to their needs and they should go.
Another thing I get many non military people in who are suffering from PSTD. Upon research, I found 1 in 3 people suffer from some dramatic event in their life. My message now is more “ Global”. “We all have our Vietnams be it a bad relationship, accident, illness, death of a love one, etc. How we deal with it tends to define us”.I go on to say there is NO CURE. You just have to find ways to deal with it. They are receptive when I tell them to immerse themselves in something they enjoy. Something that will give them self worth. If you sing, join a choir. If you read, join a book club, dance take lessons, paint take a class on YouTube or an art school and so on.
So now we’re addressing a larger audience and helping more people. Ultimately, it helps me deal with my infirmary.
Thanks for your comment
John Melillo